Image Courtesy of Good Salt

Image Courtesy of Good Salt

Hundreds of years ago, Hagar gave God a name – “The God Who Sees Me.” (Genesis 16:13)

In her most difficult place, God made it clear that Hagar was noticed and cared for personally.

The Psalm that we have continued to make reference to through our study so far–Psalm 139–makes it clear that we, too, are precious in God’s sight. He knows us. He cares.

This week, we took a deeper look at the story about Jesus meeting a Samaritan woman at a well in Samaria from John 4. I hope that you are able to take time to watch our group session video below where I share some thoughts about this. (So sorry that the video is so long this week, too. I want to keep them between 5 and 10 minutes in length–hopefully, closer to 5 minutes, but this week, I just got so excited about John 4.)

Some questions that I asked in the video:

  • Why do *you* think that Jesus “had” to go through Samaria?
  • Based on John 4, make a list of character traits of the woman Jesus meets. What is she like? What might be the things she struggles with? Why was she at the well at mid-day?
  • How does it affect you to realize that Jesus “had to go through Samaria” to meet this woman in the middle of the day in the middle of nowhere? What does that say to you about God?
  • What is the “Divine AND” that Heidi spoke of in the video?
  • What “Divine AND” are do you want to trust God for in your life?
  • Can you relate at all to the shame that this woman was experiencing–the shame that kept her from going to the well during the typical times of the day and the shame that might have caused her to want to never have to come to the well ever again?
  • After her encounter with Jesus, what did the woman do? Like the woman, is there any chance that God may (one day) call you to minister to others after he brings you out?
  • Do you think God has turned his back on you and stopped listening or caring? What does Scripture say about this?
  • Do you try to perform to win God’s heart? Or do you struggle with thinking God will never accept you? The truth is, you can’t do anything to win His heart. You can’t woo Him. Why? Because you already have His heart! You are His bride! He has chosen you. He wooed you! You love Him only because He first loved you!

The woman thought she wanted water. The conversation with Jesus proved she wanted–and needed–something deeper.

  • You may think you want to be thin, but is it possible that you want–and need–something deeper as well?
  •  What do you suppose it is?

God used the woman’s need for physical water to lead her to an encounter with him to offer what she really needed.

  •  Is it possible that God is using your physical challenges with food and your body to lead you to an encounter with him to offer you what you really need?

God knows all about you.

Your history.

Your shame.

Your hopes

Your dreams

He knows your TRUE need, like the woman.

He chooses NOW for an encounter with you.

The story of the Samaritan woman, focuses our attention on heart hunger, certainly. The authors give us an opportunity to process all three hunger types: heart hunger, head hunger, and stomach hunger. What has it been like for you to experience each? On page 62, the authors have a chart for us to record experiences we have with each kind of hunger. Take some time to fill this chart out.

One of the things you may want to consider is the fact that while stomach hunger may seem to be the most straight forward, we nevertheless often experience emotion in response to it. Some of us, when our stomachs are empty, find fear rises up, we get agitated, or panicky. It can be really helpful to sit in this physical hunger for a few minutes and ask the Lord to show you what is going on. Take time to journal about it and to tell yourself the truth (renew your mind) about how you are *safe* being hungry and that God is meeting you in that place.

I would love to hear from you any of your thoughts that you have in response to the questions here or whatever God lays on your heart to share.